This is so simple for one man that I don't know what all the fuss is about.
It is just a lot of work, and you will walk your butt off, back and forth from the transit to the stake.
And no "ROD" is needed at all.
1. Buy a bunch of 2x2's about 6 or 8 feet long... (longer if doing a steep grade)
2. Drive one in the ground everywhere you intend to have a "blue top"
3. Set up your transit (level) so you can see all of them.
4. Hang your tape from the top of the first one (ground 'zero') with a few feet hanging down.
5. Sight the tape
6. Walk to the stake and mark it at whatever number you read in the scope.
7. Do this to all the stakes. (It doesn't matter a bit what number you read, just mark it)
8. You now have all the stakes marked at the same level line.
Say, "Ground Zero" happens to be 48" down from your mark to the dirt. Fine. 57"? 61"? Fine. It doesn't matter.
Either read your grading plan, or calculate the slope (drop) for each stake.
Go to each stake and simply add the inches (feet?) of drop to the original 48". (You'll have to dig down into the ground to do this.)
This is the height of THAT 'Blue Top' marker.
Set the 'Blue Tops'.
You're done. (You might want to leave the stakes there to let the tractor operator know where each "Blue Top" is located.)