Hi ChiTown - yes the hose from the washer is going into the drain pipe. I know what you mean that you wouldn't see anything there if water isn't going into the machine properly... that's why I'm wondering where is it going then? I know I'm not understanding something basic - but I've seen people ask the question that relates to my original question...whether you should leave the tap on even when not using the machine or not. Someone said they left the tap on and their hoses burst. I thought that I'd leave the tap constantly running anyway since my dad said most people do - so I always thought that water would be always going through the drain pipe via the hose from the machine - so I see it like this
Water from Tap -> 2x Hose connected to Tap -> 2x Hose connected to washing machine (Cold + Hot) -> Water goes from washing machine to drain out. I'm sure, like you said, this is how it works when it's functioning through the cycle including the rinse.... but if water is not going into the machine, then where is all this water going? Yes I am not the brightest tool in the shed lol.
Anyway, my original post is here
http://www.diychatroom.com/f47/washing-machine-help-please-help-idiot-out-video-409362/#post3387770
That has the video I posted about the spraying tap. I tried to tighten/loosen the nut - but it won't budge so I'm going to get a proper wrench. If that doesn't work, I guess I have to screw off the handle and maybe replace a washer or something.
Thx!