I think the problem happens because the dimmer has a rated operating range which has a lower limit as well as a higher one. Check to see if that's the case. I have noticed on some that 60 watts is the lower limit. I would expect it to either act strangely or not at all if I loaded it less than the bottom rating. Some may be rated lower than others.
I'm guessing... you can check the rating on the dimmer to confirm. There would be no point in listing a lower limit if it didn't matter... that's my logic.
A test you could do is put enough high wattage bulbs in the mix and see it the dimmer is more sociable.
If no joy with any of that info, you might just have a dimmer with a birth defect straight from the factory.
I'm guessing... you can check the rating on the dimmer to confirm. There would be no point in listing a lower limit if it didn't matter... that's my logic.
A test you could do is put enough high wattage bulbs in the mix and see it the dimmer is more sociable.
If no joy with any of that info, you might just have a dimmer with a birth defect straight from the factory.