It's 125 amps on each leg.... I am pulling 89 amps on A and 62 amps on B, but its not flipping my main. ... but the main 125 breaker out at the street is not flipping.
Boy, that sure clears that up. By the way that clears up every post for the rest of the day. Good job.89A<125A and 62A<125A so your breaker holds, and your neutral lead has 89-62=27A flowing through it. Assuming resistive loads your total power into the house is 120(89+62)= 18 kw.