Hi Dennis,
OH, OH, kinda too late for that now don't ya think?:whistling2:
In addition to the points you asked, there are other subfloor requirements, especially with natural stone tiles on floors.
First your questions. Aside from preparing the wood subfloor, thin set is spread with a 1/4x1/4" notched trowel for the concrete backer. This adds about 1/16". Tiles are installed using modified thin set. With 18" stone a 1/4x3/8x1/4 should be fine. Even a 1/4x1/2x1/4". Some would use a 1/2x1/2". Since the tiles have flat backs, the larger trowel should not be necessary. The bond coat adds 3/32-1/8", unless a special mortar was used.
With large heavy tiles a medium-bed mortar is recommended, there are many possibilities. It would be easier if you just told us how the installation was done and with what specific products.
Back to the special specs for natural stone tiles. The joists and subfloor system should meet L720 deflection specs. Standard home construction generally meets L360 specs. If you install natural stone on a L360 floor you'll end up with more pieces than you first installed. Not good.
Tell us the; type and size of the joists, their species and grade, their spacing, the unsupported span to the inch. We can tell you if they meet specs.
Also, for natural stone you need a double layer subfloor totaling 1 1/4" thick, installed properly.
Jaz