beating the dead horse....
Sorry...but...
After your first two mistakes, at this point your best bet is to mechanically remove all the offending coatings (rent the proper equipment and follow the instructions...and for the love of all that is Holy be double sure to sink all those nails), and re-coat with a proper Deck Stain, solid (like paint) or otherwise
Anything else is a "might" or "maybe" work
Sorry...but...
After your first two mistakes, at this point your best bet is to mechanically remove all the offending coatings (rent the proper equipment and follow the instructions...and for the love of all that is Holy be double sure to sink all those nails), and re-coat with a proper Deck Stain, solid (like paint) or otherwise
Anything else is a "might" or "maybe" work