Yeah I don't know what do do. It's a custom builder but they foot the bill and I use their people so I guess same concept as a track home. Makes life way easier on me but they wont close on a house any less thsn 100% done. When we do our final walk through they make sure everything is complete then we go to closing. I hate to do it but I guess it's easier to just pay them.
You have to push back and explain you are unhappy. You want an accent wall of custom tile in your new shower. Get what you want, especially in a brand new home I suspect you saved and dug deep to build.
Do you live in a real estate and title company or attorney closing state? If you live in the latter, do you have one sharp available? The seller has convinced you, you do not need one. Must I wake you up and send you roses to smell?
My ex was savage and I use to prepare all the closing documents for her. Every one of her clients walked out clean titled and with some discounts they did not expect to pay for paint and things.
The seller wants to close on your new house faster and perhaps for stronger financial reasons than you do. Right now, your new home is floating on construction loans. Of course the builder is applying extreme amounts of pressure on you to make quick decisions. The clock is ticking.
You don't have to own his clock or carry any bag of rocks unless you want to! Fire a shot across the bow. Your bank will not bail, trust me.
Be firm. It is easy for some of us who have been through this a fair number of times?