Re: best ways to clean & take care of brushes after used w/ oil based stains/polys/pa
I've had some success with letting the brush rest in a glass jar of paint brush cleaner/paint thinner type stuff for half hour or so then brushing it "dry" on scratchy cloth/shop towels to get crusty bits off. Then I can seal up the jar and use it again next time. Honestly, it doesn't work as well as I'd like, (even with fresh cleaner stuff every time,) but it mostly works - as long as you don't forget to drop your brushes in there/don't forget and leave your brushes in there too long/can find a wide enough mouthed jar.
I've switched to rag/tee-shirt application anywhere I can. That way I can just pitch the rag into a tin of water and move on. I think it gives a better finish than brushing or rolling, but it doesn't work with all stain products (growls at polyshades) nor does it work on some items (like "unfinished" wood light switches I did had some kind of wax penetration on them, couldn't sand it off so I had to brush on stupid polyshades with a disposable chip brush.)
I find sponges are alright with oil paints and some stains (not polyshades) but I think they're best for the wipe on - wipe off types; which at that point the ratty old tee-shirt is free and on hand...
Also, I've found spray on stains are better than brush, wipe, or sponge. They cost quite a bit more, but if you're not doing it for a living it's worth the cost IMO