Some new development. I called an electrician to come replace the main breakers, but let's hold off on this and let me provide more updated information.
First of all, nothing happened yesterday the entire day and night, no loss of power. So the loss of power does not always happen at dusk, and I still don't know what triggers it. As I stated I try to power up as many things as possible to try to replicate the issue including pool pump, both central AC units, shop vac, window AC, all lights. No problem. Then I turned everything off, and a few hours later, it happened again. I lost one leg of my power.
So I took out of multimeter and did more measurements while the main breaker handle was still in the ON position.
As I stated last time I measured voltage differences:
Between A & B: almost zero
Between C & D: about 120v.
This time I took additional measurements:
Between A & neutral: 120v but it fluctuates.
Between B & neutral: 120v
Between C & neutral: 120v
Between D & neutral: around 4.12v
and if I flip off all the 240v breakers the results are the same.
then it gets better, see next post.