yes, agreed, this is one of the 'issues' with trying to use a much larger size gauge wire than what a typical 30amp RV outlet is designed to use - the aggravation and sweat trying to 'push' this much larger wire into the 'tiny' holes on the back of the 30amp outlet is the problem... and can lead you to insanity.
I've experienced this on 50amp outlet's as well, if you attempt to use 6 gauge wire - and that's with a much larger diameter wire hole for this outlet.
What you might want to do is install a 240v 4-wire 8 gauge 50amp outlet, by using a 30amp to 50amp adapter from your RV - you can use a 30amp double pole breaker, if you wish, since you are not going to ever be 'using' 50amps per side, only 30amps max on only ONE side.