Wanna lecture??? Don't speak too soon, YM, there's still time! I ain't done yet! You were OK there for a while but now's my chance...
YM, I see you have posted over 1300 times on this forum and at first I was amazed since some great posters here have almost that many. Then, rereading this and other threads, I got a better picture of why it is that you have so many...
Here, you asked if grey thinset and white thinset were 'different' for tiling; two of us responded, somewhat similarly and along the same lines saying that it
does make a difference if you are tiling say, a marble, but it doesn't if you are doing ceramics...then, at the end of the thread, you're back at square one, trying to find white thinset for your tiles but that you would use grey if you couldn't find white.
So, why did you post? are you a glutton for lectures? Your thought processes must make people around you lecture you too, no? See, you started off with the idea that you use white thinset. You were sure enough at the start so you didn't ask any questions
then, but went ahead, I guess, figuring you were right. At some point, you wondered about
grey thinset. So you stopped tiling, and got typing...
Two of us responded with what we know - but now you're too far gone to change so you finish off the job - using your original thinking. Fortunately, there's no harm done because you could have used either thinset for your job - but imagine if you had been doing marble tiles with grey thinset and you were now faced with grey shadows on your floor.
In
that scenario, some might be tearing their tiles off the floor and starting over, hopefully having learned the lesson that you do the research
first, not half way through.
But that's not what happened here.
Nope. Now you feel vindicated because (fortunately) your initial thinking turned out to be harmless so, now reinvigorated, you probably will continue along the same path
in future situations (start, stop, research, proceed). All
we have done is reinforce a wrong way of proceeding that ultimately leads to more questions, therefore to answers, and in then end you've wasted time because you state that you will continue along your original lines of thinking, instead of just saying "OK, thanks!". Next time a situation arises, you'll do the same thing: make your choice, have doubts, do some free research, go on -
maybe changing your thinking for the next time.
Is that how you, I dunno, say, bake a cake? get an idea, start the recipe, turns out wrong, ask for help, muddle on through, move on to something else?
Here's a fact: When you get advice here, you get
two things: the advice itself and sometimes - for free - you get the notion that "oops! my original thinking was off course and next time I'll research first, come to a conclusion, then test that conclusion, then apply the best solution". But if the people who give the advice see that they are talking in the dark and that their advice doesn't make a difference - guess what?
More lectures...and no more advice.