So wait, you ask on a public forum for advice and opinions. People answer you and you get opinions and advice, and then you rant about it?
Put 100 tradesmen in a room and ask one question. Chances are that you will get 100 different ways to do something. Some that will apply to you, some that won't.
One of the things that I have always told my friends and family when they ask for my opinion about something is: I tell them that ten minutes from now, remember that you asked me, I did not offer my opinion. If asked I will give my opinion and I couldn't care less if you like my answer or not, you asked.
Relax. When you ask a question just take the advice that you think is best.
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